Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Thursday, August 13, 2009

In a blogging rut...


Looking at the visit statistics, it's not hard to understand why I average 12 visits a day as of late... While I averaged 7 posts a month in 2008, so far in 2009, only less than 3 a month! And usually they are these useless posts about typhoon hits and misses...

Fun always remind me to update my Blog, but I told him it's pretty much RIP.

I don't think my life got... uneventful, or boring.
In fact, alot has happened in 2009.

Went to the Philippines twice, went to Singapore with pals, almost went to London but had to cancel due to work, and then had a short but eventful trip to France last month. This past weekend I was in Guangzhou for a whirlwind tour... was there for about 28 hours but seemed like we did alot: first time on KTT to GZ (tried the older Chinese trains before), stayed at a pretty nice hotel, walked around a thousand-year-old street, saw old authentic Guangzhou-style tenement buildings, saw Sandy in Concert, hit a hip local music club, had dim sum at GZ Lin Heung, strolled through the former foreign concession area of Sha Mian Island, had FIRE THERAPY that sounds as scary as it looks, and finally, missing the KTT back and had to route through SZ by taking the CRH for the first time and was quite impressed with the service.

So that was GZ.

In a couple of weeks I will make another short trip to Macau to see a shorter version of Sandy's concert, but apparently would be attended by mostly HK fans.

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Something else also happened in the last few weeks. A good classmate of mine passed away while I was in France. She had battled cancer for a few years already, during which her diagnosis got better for a couple of years, but the cancer eventually came back and spread to other part of her body.

I'm certainly not a religious person, but I do believe she's at a better place now (she was a Christian and was often surrounded by her church friends), after all that suffering and pain she had gone through over these years. Is it a sign of maturity, or have I been desensitized? Or are they one and the same? But death, I feel now, does not represent the End and it is not necessary a sad thing for all. On the day before my departure to France I did visit her at the hospital. Thinking about it when I learned the news, I remembered that even though she was mostly unconscious, as she was the previous time I visited her, she did give me a rare smile and she almost looked awake at a moment. That's the memory I will keep as the last image of her, along with those times we had during our workshops, classes, dinners, dim sums, etc.

About a month ago, another friend of mine lost his mother, to complications associated with cancer. While reading the eulogy written by her family and printed for guests at the funeral hall, I was touched by their simple words, they simple way of telling us about a husband's wife, a daughter's mother, the son's best friend...

Death gives us an opportunity to remember the ones that have gone before us. Some of us choose to do it in a more visible way, but I always believe these things are more personal and should be done so quietly.

RIP, Mrs. Yan and Winnie.

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Then there's the picture above. When I saw it I thought to myself... how come we always feel lighter and happier when we see sunflowers, especially loads of it?


Sunday, June 22, 2008

Age of Innocence

P4, circa 1986


P6, circa 1988

The amazing thing about Facebook is we get back in touch with people from ages ago... and this I mean Primary school classmates. For me it doesn't date back anymore than that because I just don't remember any names from my kindergarten days... except this girl whom also went to the same school with me in our primary and secondary school days.

Our primary school campus will be redeveloped this summer, so I went back to take some pics for memory's sake.

The last time I went back was 6 years ago, when I taught at the secondary school next door as a Sub Teacher for a couple of months. But honestly, I really hadn't set foot in the primary school campus for ... 20 years.

Everything has shrunk. I remember running around the playground like it was a 400m track, and we could play "ping pong football/Watermelon football" in the covered playground, where we could easily fit 400 kids there for morning assembly... I honestly don't know how we could do that now... it's so small?!

The same basketball court, same hard surface where we played during Recess

I didn't make plans to meet up with old classmates, but did meet 3 while I was there. It's just strange to see them... we all look the same (except now I'm triple-sized), but I haven't ANY clue what has become of them. Even old buddies, 20 years is almost a life time of memories and changes. Our FB profiles show that we've all become individuals, with our own friends, families, career, etc. Our 6 years together, does it amount to anything? Does it mean much to any of us? Except sharing the playground, corridors, classrooms, it doesn't seem to add up to much, does it?

Gosh, hadn't seen Erica in at least 18 years

Acquaintances come in and out of your life. Sometimes I don't even remember the names of people I met last week. But these people, about 60 of them, names stick in the back of my mind for the last 20-odd years. Funny but I actually dream about them sometimes, playing in our playground... Moments in class, a certain teachers, "relationships", buddies, competitions... That's our childhood. Sacred, precious, and so innocent. Only happy memories, and nothing else. Our Age of Innocence.

Bye bye, part of my childhood

Friday, August 24, 2007

Houston:

We've made Contact!

Thursday, May 03, 2007

28

Multiple of 7?
The Perfect Age?
Number of good friends?
Or your new nickname, Aaron?
Despite cool weather, choppy waters, and the Sun playing Hide-and-Seek, a boat cruise in late April couldn't be more fun. Good friends, new faces, cool sports, fun games, plus "Gweilo seafood" and good hazelnut cake from Agnes b., this marked a great beginning of Summer 2007! Now I just have to get in better shape for the shorts and tank tops.